Feature/make load active listening pipe dir settable (#13674)

* fix: Hopefully fixed the build of the cpp-example on windows systems

* fix: Increase the timeout even more to finally make the build succeed.

* fix: Fix the build.

* fix: Make the loadActiveListeningPipeDir (Needed for running IoTDB in embedded mode)

iotdb-core/datanode/src/main/java/org/apache/iotdb/db/conf/IoTDBConfig.java

@@ -4060,6 +4060,10 @@ public String getLoadActiveListeningPipeDir() {
     return loadActiveListeningPipeDir;
   }
 
+  public void setLoadActiveListeningPipeDir(String loadActiveListeningPipeDir) {
+    this.loadActiveListeningPipeDir = loadActiveListeningPipeDir;
+  }
+
   public String[] getLoadActiveListeningDirs() {
     return (Objects.isNull(this.loadActiveListeningDirs)
             || this.loadActiveListeningDirs.length == 0)